Coaching
One-on-one mentoring for bravely seeking humans who seek permission to stop seeking permission.
Permission to find their freedom, to embrace their wild, to shed their shame, to own their desire and the wholeness of themselves as sovereign beings.
Permission to embrace their aliveness. To dance to the beat of a different drummer. To wander off the well-worn path and chart a course of their own becoming.
Permission to unleash their voice, To create. To write their story. To spill the truth. To tear down crumbling paradigms. To become the whistleblower heralding in a new way.
Humans, like you, who are ready to mine the stories of their lives and hearts for the wisdom, the autonomy, the truth (and yes, the permission) that their life has to offer.
My work is rooted in radical permission. To own your story. To remove the masks. To shed the shame. To speak and write and live as a human sovereign unto yourself.
If you are ready for a deep dive inquiry into the truth of your heart, your body, your knowing, into the blood and bones and desire of you—
it all comes down to sovereignty.
But here’s the secret of sovereignty, it is not something I can give you…
Just like Glinda The Good Witch says to Dorothy in The Wizard Of Oz,
“You’ve always had the power, my dear. You’ve had it all along.”
Of course, that’s easy for Glinda to say, she floats around in a giant pink bubble and doesn’t have to deal with partners or children or employers, or worldwide pandemics.
But if you are here on this page, I am guessing that there is something you are seeking within yourself.
Jeanette’s writing is deep, true, passionate. Beautiful. With a fierceness and cracked openness…
That’s where I come in.
I am here to create a container of support for you as you expand into living, writing, and evolving into the space where you can click your own ruby slippers together and finally know that you are your own home.
Here’s how it works…
I work one-on-one as a mentor, coach, and guide with humans who are ready to reclaim their inborn sovereignty—in their writing, in their art, in their relationships, in the entirety of their lives.
Through coaching, we will deep dive into exercises designed to assist you in clarifying the terms of your contract with yourself, with your creative projects, and in your relationships.
When we learn to uphold our contract with ourselves (with our purpose, with our creative calling, with the truth of our being) above all others, we are not only able to stay in integrity with our souls, but we also gain essential tools to chart a path that will forever lead us back home to ourselves.
Whether you are working with me to claim that space in your life, or you are embracing a particular creative project, our time together is designed to help you become a catalyst of permission—removing the barriers that have prevented you from claiming the wholeness that has always been waiting for you.
I open two new coaching spots per quarter – join the waitlist here and I will be in touch to learn more about your needs and schedule a free exploration call when openings are available.
Ready to explore your own non-negotiables and your contract with self?
What is sovereignty catalyst coaching:
The core of sovereignty (sexually, creatively, professionally, relationally) lies in knowing and understanding the truth of ourselves.
As it turns out, that can be a little more complex than it sounds.
Sovereignty coaching is all about…
Knowing in your bones that you are your own safest space. Your own creative muse. Your own knight in not-so-shiny armor. Your own lighthouse. Your own port in the wildest storm. Your own primary relationship.
Understanding and cutting through the unwanted and unconscious programming, projections, and conflicting contracts currently operating in your life (the unwelcome gifts of culture, religion, family of origin). It’s hard to break rules if you don’t first understand that they are in effect.
Extracting yourself from boxes that have required you to contort yourself to fit. Deconstructing and dismantling what no longer serves – the very best kind of demolition.
Subversively untangling yourself from the shame spiral (an unwanted gift of culture and religion and the patriarchy).
Untangling the twisted threads of conditioning that hold you separate from your wild infinities—so that you no longer live as an apology for the ways and hows and whos of your work, your desire, and your ways of living and loving.
Learning to understand and embrace your capacity and your humanness with the tenderness you’ve often reserved for those you love the most, but rarely for yourself.
Owning your epic badassery—especially in the context of the clusterfuckery of being human and alive in this world.
Exploring your desires, naming your wants, accepting that you are allowed to have needs. Knowing that you are not too much for wanting more and that yes, you are here to receive.
Creating a contract with self that allows you to remain in integrity with your wild heart and creates a solid foundation to return to when you wander.
Envisioning a one-of-a-kind prescription for wholeness written for you and by you, and living into this until there is not a person, or relationship, or religion, or belief system or organization that holds you to any agreement that negates your contract with yourself.
Unleashing your wildly creative creativity and dancing with the muse and releasing the stories that have been burning in your belly, begging for release.
A whole lot of compassion, a fuck ton of grace, and a boundless sense of gentle exploration (think of this like being an archeologist and treasure hunter of your own soul and purpose – it’s like The Goonies meets National Treasure, but the map ALWAYS leads back to you).
What does coaching look like?
This process and the container we create is different for each and every human who works with me.
The work revolves around the following core themes and is entirely guided by your needs and the work you are actively focusing on in your life.
Common steps may include:
Radical permission
Transformative grace
Creative agency
Sexual liberation
Personal sovereignty
Collective responsibility
Justice-centered roots
Boundary pushing art
Gentle self-forgiveness
Exquisite boundaries
Pleasure driven decisions
Uninhibited receiving
Ownership of story
Relentless self reclamation
Provocative aliveness
Where does this all lead you?
1.
To a space where you are walking the path of autonomy, launching you on a lifelong journey of returning home to your center (the center of your heart, of your creative agency, of yourself) until you reach a place where you truly feel sovereign unto yourself.
2.
To embrace your own glorious humanity, your paradoxical multitudes, your holy contradiction, your beautiful mess, your irreplaceable aliveness.
3.
To build a custom set of sovereignty practices a that serve as a custom instruction manual —think of these as breadcrumbs you can drop on your journey that will let you trace your way back whenever you wander away.
4.
A whole new outlook on your creativity and the body of work you are creating (whether than be a regular journaling practice or your first book) where your ownership of your story is paramount.
What Sovereignty coaching is not:
Does sovereignty coaching mean you’ll beat all your demons and that you’ll no longer give a fuck (note: I am a giver of many fucks, I just now give them judiciously and with discernment) or that everything will suddenly be peachy keen all the time?
- Oh hell no. Not even close.
As a human drawn to sovereignty work, I’d be willing to bet that you’ve spent a lifetime grappling with yourself, exploring your center and edges—pushing and growing and expanding and contracting. Learning and unlearning and tripping over the same lessons 50 times or more on the way to integration.
It gets messy in that brain and heart and body of yours, right?
I get it, that’s exactly how I’m made too.
We don’t want to change that about you.
Not in the least. Although it may not always feel true, your giant, tender, FEEL ALL THE FEELS ALL THE TIME heart is one of the very best things about you (trust me on this).
You CAN maintain all of that impossibly feelingsy shit AND claim agency AND autonomy over your life.
It IS possible
I promise.
Shannon Crossman
Jeanette comes at writing from a place of radical truth telling.
It’s not about product or polish or publication. She writes for the sake of being radically honest. for telling the deeper truths, for getting underneath things and showing people what’s there. This is one of her most powerful gifts as a leader. She creates a model for writing that took me from writing at a surface level and dropped me 3000 feet.
It’s like excavating the soul…
*Sovereignty mentorship is not therapy.
It cannot heal deep and complex trauma. It is not a replacement for professional assistance.
I am not a trained counselor or therapist and do not offer services related to these fields. If we enter territory beyond the scope listed above I will be happy to refer you to a qualified professional.
My sovereignty philosophy
Your contract with self is the most important agreement you will make andhold in this lifetime.
It will be made & broken, rewritten & demolished & recreated many times across the versions of self you will inhabit during your years on earth.
How many escape clauses did you build into your to answer the needs of everyone but yourself?
How often have you accepted a contract with another that negated the one you hold in the deepest core of your being? Do you feel a pull inside that threatens to split you in two?
You must be tenacious in removing the loopholes that keep you estranged from your fully integrated self.
There is nothing more holy than your contract with yourself.
Remember, pleasure is your birthright and desire will lead you home and joy really is right there for the taking.
This work is about ownership and integration and the shedding of shame and apology. It’s about reclamation and boldness and healing and grace.
Does your current contract leave you feeling solidly grounded AND wildly free?
If not, let’s talk.
It’s time to get you moving toward your want, toward your power, toward the whole of YOU.
What is a Sovereignty Catalyst Exploration Call
During your free exploration call, we will:
- Dive into an in-depth understanding of your needs, desires, and goals within the container of your journey toward sovereignty
- Take the time to create a picture of where you are right now, and explore the spaces you would like to travel during our time together
- Discuss the practicalities and logistics of our work together
- Explore our coach/client chemistry and ways of relating
- Ensure we have a full understanding of next steps to take to move forward
Remember:
You are an epic survivor.
You are a miraculous being dead set on healing.
You are a wise and wondrous seeker.
You are a badass (even if you can’t see it yourself).
Yes. even in the midst of the worst clusterfuckery.
Remind yourself today that for all your wandering, you have always returned and, god damn it to hell, you always will.
Sovereignty is about owning all of that, it’s the alchemy of the whole damn magical business
It’s a steady reminder & a wild handful of hope and a dash of audacity for good measure.
Today. Always. Forever.
Final Invite?
Dear one,
We’ve all lived too long trying to fit into boxes built by people and society and religion and a culture that were built long before we were born.
Enough of that.
You are the boss of you.
There comes a time in the evolution of a human where she gets tired of asking permission to live and breathe and be and love in the way that is most honest and true. When she stops looking outside of herself, she writes her own permission slip and doesn’t look back.
Do not settle for living a version of your life designed by another. You are not meant to be the gatekeeper or the holder of secrets and shame. You are here to live free and clear and into your own wide-open truth.
Your life belongs to you now.
Your life and your story and your body and your precious wild heart. Every last bit of what makes you the miracle that you are. Regardless of what the rest of the world demands, here, there is no compromise. No settling. No making do. This is reclamation. This is hallowed ground. And it is entirely true. Nothing is forbidden. In the wild that is your home, nothing is ever forbidden. Not now, not ever again.
Welcome to your life, wild one.
Welcome all the way home.
Are you ready to be subversive? How about revolutionary? Are you ready to choose wholeness over goodness?
Brian Andreas
Jeanette’s writing is deep, true, passionate. Beautiful. With a fierceness and cracked openness…
SHANNON CROSSMAN
Jeanette comes at writing from a place of radical truth telling.
It’s not about product or polish or publication. She writes for the sake of being radically honest. for telling the deeper truths, for getting underneath things and showing people what’s there. This is one of her most powerful gifts as a leader. She creates a model for writing that took me from writing at a surface level and dropped me 3000 feet.